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  • hrdickinson
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    Originally posted by copelandamuffy View Post
    Am I not reading the tea leaves right, but from some of the posting it seems
    okay to have an occasional fling or one night whoopie in your local
    Motel 6, with someone besides your wife or husband.

    For those who are married, I assume you were married in a church, or synagogue, before a minister, preist, or rabbi, and under the eyes of
    God. Isn't part of the vows state "Keep Your Trousers or Dress on" except
    in front of your partner.

    Sorry to rant and rave on this, but I see this crap all the time.
    Wives or Husbands who spend a night under the sheets with someone
    beside the person they married, and find this okay

    This is from someone who has been married for 25 years.
    How sad these posts are. I agree with the statement above. I have been married 17 years...twice! At least I can't be accused of not hanging in there. When you really love someone (#2 in my case), even a big time fantasy about someone else fades when it comes right down to it. If two people really, really loved each other at one point in their relationship, then IMO, your energy is better spent trying to regain that feeling, even if using a therapist, clergyman (clergy person?) is necessary. Sadly, however, that doesn't always work. All the best to you.

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  • Bill Warnock
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    Originally posted by LP9999 View Post
    My husband cheated on me 1 month before I found out I was preggers. I didn't find out about the cheat till I was 3 weeks away from giving birth.

    I've been on both sides of this issue (the cheater and the cheatee) from various past relationships. Trust is easy to lose and hard to gain.
    While assigned to Dobbins AFB GA, North of Atlanta, a member of our unit decided to play hide the salami with another's wife. Not a pretty sight when the husband, a Marine, came home early. Bad news, our unit guy was in the hospital for six weeks and the wife divorced. Our unit guy's wife filed for divorce. Cobb County Judge granted it in a timely manner. Forgot to mention, our unit guy lost his clearance, required for the job.
    Enjoy the day,
    Bill

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  • bpdblue
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    Is this appropriate?

    Hank Williams song, goes like this,

    "Your cheatin heart will make you weep"

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  • NRM_Oz
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    Amen LP9999. It happens at work and it happens in our personal lives as well. Once that trust is broken it is never going to be the same again and it is never going to be replaced so easily.

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  • LP9999
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    My husband cheated on me 1 month before I found out I was preggers. I didn't find out about the cheat till I was 3 weeks away from giving birth.

    I've been on both sides of this issue (the cheater and the cheatee) from various past relationships. Trust is easy to lose and hard to gain.

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  • tattedupboy
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    I find out mine was cheating on me when I caught an STD. I know it didn't come from me because I have not been sleeping around. I put her out of my apartment later that day.

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  • JB diligence
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    The way I see it cheating is wrong fair and square. If your no longer in love with that person fix it or end it. I am a single guy, I am not into playing different women, doesn't work for me. I believer in loyalty and What goes around comes around, and treating every woman how you would want your mother, sister, daughter treated. With respect.

    Temptation is a dangerous thing, yet it can be resisted and beat. As far as if a girlfriend cheated on me, there's the door don't let it hit you on the way out, ya it's gunna hurt like hell but do you really want someone who's going to betray your trust? If we breached that trust at work we'd be canned. Why should a girlfriend/boyfriend be any different.

    If they cheat they obviously have no regard for trust or love.

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  • Bill Warnock
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    When in Air Force/Security Police assigned to preparing DD Form 398, Personal History Statement, I would take the person who prepared the form and ask a number of questions OSI and the FBI required. One of the questions was that of infidelity. Purpose was such activities might make the person susceptible to blackmail, especially if the spouse did not know. As those of us who worked in this area, an oath was taken never to reveal any information obtained while assigned to this task.
    Some answers were enlightening as to personal behavior.
    Enjoy the day,
    Bill

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  • copelandamuffy
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    Am I not reading the tea leaves right, but from some of the posting it seems
    okay to have an occasional fling or one night whoopie in your local
    Motel 6, with someone besides your wife or husband.

    For those who are married, I assume you were married in a church, or synagogue, before a minister, preist, or rabbi, and under the eyes of
    God. Isn't part of the vows state "Keep Your Trousers or Dress on" except
    in front of your partner.

    Sorry to rant and rave on this, but I see this crap all the time.
    Wives or Husbands who spend a night under the sheets with someone
    beside the person they married, and find this okay

    This is from someone who has been married for 25 years.

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  • FireEMSPolice
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    My now x-g/f has kissed others but swore it wasnt cheating..yea whatever. I will admit, I have cheated but I dont know if I have been cheated on other then the aforementioned statement about my now x-g/f.

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  • N. A. Corbier
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    Originally posted by HotelSecurity View Post
    Do cyber-affairs count?
    Do {you|your partner} feel cheated on, and did it affect the relationship in a negative way?

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  • HotelSecurity
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    Do cyber-affairs count?

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  • EMTGuard
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    No here. We've "played well with others" on occasion but never cheated. The rule is, as long as the other person is told before hand and gives consent and the chance to be present if they feel like being there then it's ok. We need a bigger bed.

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  • N. A. Corbier
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    Don't really lock threads here... If its that bad, I just kill the whole thread, and the memory of it is erased from your minds.

    To the topic, this would be a no for me.

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  • Curtis Baillie
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    One thing I've learned from this site - you guys will take a poll on just about anything.

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