Security Officers dating each other?

[FireEMSPolice]

What is your policy about Security Officers dating each other? What about a Security Officer dating a Supervisor?

[blocka]

To be honest its not the Army as long as it doesnt affect your work than there shouldn't be a problem.

But of all the females I have seen working Security I wouldn't want to date any of them anyway

[integrator97]

But of all the females I have seen working Security I wouldn't want to date any of them anyway

Who said anything about females?? ??

[CorpSec]

The officers dating each other is fine as long as no boss/employee relationship exists. A supervisor dating one of their direct reports is forbidden.

[integrator97]

But of all the females I have seen working Security I wouldn't want to date any of them anyway

By the way, what have you got against dating 82 year old chain smoking women with raspy voices?

[mh892]

By the way, what have you got against dating 82 year old chain smoking women with raspy voices?

He (?) doesn't date younger women?

[blocka]

He (?) doesn't date younger women?

haha nice one

and integrator97 that description is pretty much spot on

[CAPTAIN KOOLAID]

Security Officers dating each other?

By the way, what have you got against dating 82 year old chain smoking women with raspy voices?

There nothing wrong with that you know what say about women they are like wine get better with age. I just draw line at voice box lol.

The company I work for have no regs on dating each other. But the females are our k9 units a bunch dogs and scary bull dikes. There great people just no one I every date or let alone F*** not even with ValleyOne's night stick on 10 foot pole.

[SecTrainer]

With regard to officers dating officers, the situation would have to be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. If, as can happen in some cases, the relationship compromises the mission, something like reassignment of one of the officers would be both justified and required.

Under no circumstances should a supervisor be involved romantically with an employee who reports to the supervisor. Again, reassignment is often the best solution.

Of course, one reason that companies fear these relationships is because there might be problems if and when the people break up, but that really is a different issue altogether. It might never happen, and should be dealt with if and when that time comes.

It should be emphasized that firing people (or "accepting their resignations") is usually not the only, or the best, way to handle such situations. Look at alternatives such as splitting up shifts, post reassignments, etc. first.

It should also be emphasized that there is something very wonderful that happens to people when they "find the right person" and settle into a stable relationship. In fact, they often become even better employees, so why throw cold water on them? If this really is "big-L Love", well...be happy for them and try to help them. Don't be a Grinch!! All you'll get for your trouble is good employees quitting, or else they'll be sneaking around behind your back, and either of those outcomes will affect you, them and the rest of your team very adversely.

[SecTrainer]

He (?) doesn't date younger women?

Har har!! Good one!

[mh892]

There nothing wrong with that you know what say about women they are like wine get better with age. I just draw line at voice box lol.

The company I work for have no regs on dating each other. But the females are our k9 units a bunch dogs and scary bull dikes. There great people just no one I every date or let alone F*** not even with ValleyOne's night stick on 10 foot pole.

WOW, CK. How Politicaly incorrect. I have a feeling your about to get pounced on.

[CAPTAIN KOOLAID]

Security Officers dating each other?

WOW, CK. How Politically incorrect. I have a feeling your about to get pounced on.

Gezzz you have be Politically incorrect with who you won't date or sleep with.
Kill me now

[integrator97]

WOW, CK. How Politicaly incorrect. I have a feeling your about to get pounced on.

Gezzz you have be Politically incorrect with who you won't date or sleep with.
Kill me now

I refer you to posts # 23 & 24 here http://forums.securityinfowatch.com/...?t=3573&page=3

[Hank1]

Sec is absolutely right on all counts. I would like to add that I do not date any of the ladies at work is because they start asking for favors. Favors like better posts, better schedules and last minute call offs because they "date the boss". Nah! Too much of a headache for me.

Be safe,

Hank

[ValleyOne]

not even with ValleyOne's night stick on

Um ya, you can borrow my baton when you pry it from my cold dead hands.