SecTrainer
01-26-2010, 12:33 PM
"Passing the buck" is a frequent complaint heard from service providers - both internal and external - not only with respect to their clients, but about other providers in the value chain. Basically, it's a situation in which someone, some other unit in the company, or the client is seeking to transfer responsibility for a situation, a service issue, a task or an expected outcome from their hands to ours. Naturally, our first reaction to such situations is one of resentment, or perhaps stubborn refusal and denial (passing the buck back to where, in our opinion, it belongs).
There might be a couple of better ways to think about, and hence deal with, these situations - even to the point of transforming them into opportunities. As someone said, "Perception is everything". Like most platitudes, this one is an oversimplification of a fundamental principle, namely that our ability to solve problems depends greatly on the attitude that we bring to them.
What if we change "passing the buck" to "passing the ball"? The play calls for the quarterback to keep the ball and run with it, but the defense penetrates the backfield and he's being chased. As the tight end, your assignment during this play was downfield blocking, but the quarterback signals you that he wants you to get open so he can pass the ball before he gets sacked.
"Well, there he goes again - passing the buck onto someone else!", you think to yourself. Making a mental note to complain about this despicable tendency at the next team meeting, you continue blocking (your "job" on this play) and you even chuckle a bit to yourself as the quarterback gets creamed for a 10-yard loss. "Serves him right, the buck-passer!", you mutter while large men dance on the quarterback's face with hobnail boots. Had you only known, the defense was so focused on nailing the quarterback that you could have taken that short pass in for a touchdown. "Oh well, at least that @#!!*& buck-passing quarterback got his! I bet he'll never try that stunt again!"
Well, not with you anyway, because you won't be playing professional football anymore.
Absurd? Perhaps, but isn't that exactly how some of us "play" our "positions" as service providers? "Not our job!", we mutter. "Not in the contract!", we screech. "We didn't sign up for this!" "We're doing what we're supposed to do!" The quarterback is signaling that he wants to pass the ball, but we can't see the opportunity he's giving us. All we can think is that he called the wrong audible and now he's trying to lay the whole thing on our shoulders. To hell with him! Let him eat dirt and die!
Another way to think about these situations is whether they present new opportunities to extend our sphere of influence and leadership - not "passing the buck" but "passing the flag". When the flag-bearer on the field of battle is hit and falls, do we stand there clucking at him for being such a fool as to be wounded, or do we take up the flag and carry it onward, resolved to bear the standard of excellence higher and further than he was able to do? Do we, like soldiers on the battlefield, make it a point of honor that the flag will not touch the ground, regardless of "why" it is dropped, or whose "fault" it might be?
Sure, "passing the buck" is often just that - an attempt by someone else to evade their own responsibilities, to shirk the load, to transfer blame. But it can also be a tacit acknowledgement of their own inability or unwillingness to do the job, and if we think about these situations right we can often see in them the seeds of opportunity - to expand our own role and to step up to the plate. We're the pinch batter who, having done nothing to to account for the fact that the team is down by a run in the ninth inning, don't think to ourselves "Oh, sure, now I'm going to be blamed if we lose - that coach is such a buck-passer, and the guy in this batting spot is such a loser!". Instead of focusing on the possibility that we'll be "the goat", we seize the opportunity to be the hero - they don't come often. In fact, it's the moment we always dreamed about when we were a kid in Little League...and the moment has arrived. We take the team on our shoulders. The runner on second takes his lead...we see the pitch coming almost as if in slow motion...and blast the winning run into the upper deck.
Or do we strike out because we clutter our mind with resentment and finger-pointing at others who muffed that fly ball in the fourth, or couldn't bring home those runs in the seventh?
There might be a couple of better ways to think about, and hence deal with, these situations - even to the point of transforming them into opportunities. As someone said, "Perception is everything". Like most platitudes, this one is an oversimplification of a fundamental principle, namely that our ability to solve problems depends greatly on the attitude that we bring to them.
What if we change "passing the buck" to "passing the ball"? The play calls for the quarterback to keep the ball and run with it, but the defense penetrates the backfield and he's being chased. As the tight end, your assignment during this play was downfield blocking, but the quarterback signals you that he wants you to get open so he can pass the ball before he gets sacked.
"Well, there he goes again - passing the buck onto someone else!", you think to yourself. Making a mental note to complain about this despicable tendency at the next team meeting, you continue blocking (your "job" on this play) and you even chuckle a bit to yourself as the quarterback gets creamed for a 10-yard loss. "Serves him right, the buck-passer!", you mutter while large men dance on the quarterback's face with hobnail boots. Had you only known, the defense was so focused on nailing the quarterback that you could have taken that short pass in for a touchdown. "Oh well, at least that @#!!*& buck-passing quarterback got his! I bet he'll never try that stunt again!"
Well, not with you anyway, because you won't be playing professional football anymore.
Absurd? Perhaps, but isn't that exactly how some of us "play" our "positions" as service providers? "Not our job!", we mutter. "Not in the contract!", we screech. "We didn't sign up for this!" "We're doing what we're supposed to do!" The quarterback is signaling that he wants to pass the ball, but we can't see the opportunity he's giving us. All we can think is that he called the wrong audible and now he's trying to lay the whole thing on our shoulders. To hell with him! Let him eat dirt and die!
Another way to think about these situations is whether they present new opportunities to extend our sphere of influence and leadership - not "passing the buck" but "passing the flag". When the flag-bearer on the field of battle is hit and falls, do we stand there clucking at him for being such a fool as to be wounded, or do we take up the flag and carry it onward, resolved to bear the standard of excellence higher and further than he was able to do? Do we, like soldiers on the battlefield, make it a point of honor that the flag will not touch the ground, regardless of "why" it is dropped, or whose "fault" it might be?
Sure, "passing the buck" is often just that - an attempt by someone else to evade their own responsibilities, to shirk the load, to transfer blame. But it can also be a tacit acknowledgement of their own inability or unwillingness to do the job, and if we think about these situations right we can often see in them the seeds of opportunity - to expand our own role and to step up to the plate. We're the pinch batter who, having done nothing to to account for the fact that the team is down by a run in the ninth inning, don't think to ourselves "Oh, sure, now I'm going to be blamed if we lose - that coach is such a buck-passer, and the guy in this batting spot is such a loser!". Instead of focusing on the possibility that we'll be "the goat", we seize the opportunity to be the hero - they don't come often. In fact, it's the moment we always dreamed about when we were a kid in Little League...and the moment has arrived. We take the team on our shoulders. The runner on second takes his lead...we see the pitch coming almost as if in slow motion...and blast the winning run into the upper deck.
Or do we strike out because we clutter our mind with resentment and finger-pointing at others who muffed that fly ball in the fourth, or couldn't bring home those runs in the seventh?